If you feel like you’re drowning in dishes, laundry, and clutter—only to crash at the end of the day and wake up to do it all over again—I see you. Routines can help, but let’s be real: the internet is FULL of complicated checklists and time-blocking schedules that just don’t work when you have kids.
The good news? There’s a better way. A simplified, flexible, and realistic approach to routines that actually make life easier. Here’s what you need to know about creating routines that work for YOU (without the stress). And I've talked about it from all angles over the years!
Why Cleaning Routines Fail (And What Actually Works)
Moms often try to implement cleaning routines, only to feel frustrated when they don’t stick. Why? Because the real problem isn’t the routine—it’s the clutter. When your home is overflowing with stuff, no routine in the world will make cleaning feel easy. You’re not failing at keeping up; you’re just managing too much.
The fix: Decluttering first. When you have fewer dishes, fewer clothes, and fewer toys, routines start to fall into place naturally. Instead of spending hours cleaning, you’ll be able to manage things in quick, doable chunks.
Read the full blog post on why cleaning routines fail and what actually works:
You don’t need an hour-long morning routine or a rigid daily schedule. Instead, simple habits—like washing dishes after meals or doing a quick nightly reset—create more breathing room in your day.
The key? Start small. Pick one or two habits that make your life easier and build from there. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s progress.
Check out the blog post & podcast on keeping habits and routines simple:
Morning Routines That Work (Even If You’re Exhausted)
Most “perfect” morning routines don’t work for moms. If you’re in a season of sleepless nights or nonstop toddler energy, waking up at 5 AM to journal and meditate isn’t realistic.
The secret? Flexible morning routines. Create a Plan A (when you wake up before the kids) and a Plan B (when they wake up with you). Whether it’s a quick shower and coffee or just brushing your teeth and drinking water—start where you are.
The Nightly Reset Routine (Your Secret Weapon for Smoother Mornings)
Ever wake up to a messy kitchen and immediately feel behind? A simple nightly reset can make a HUGE difference.
It’s not about deep cleaning—it’s just a 15-20 minute reset before bed so you wake up to a fresh start. A quick kitchen tidy, a clutter sweep, and a little prep for the next day will make your mornings feel so much lighter.
Get the full breakdown of the Nightly Reset Routine here:
If meal planning always feels like a chore or you just never get around to it, let’s do it together. I’m hosting a Live Meal Planning Session inside BossMom+ this week, and I’d love for you to join me.
We’ll plan out meals for the week, make sure dinner isn’t a daily headache, and keep it simple so it actually works for your family. No overcomplicated systems, just a laid-back session to get it done.
You don’t have to have a business to join in, but being part of BossMom+ might just get you thinking about starting one. It’s one of my favorite communities, and Dana, the founder, has become a really good friend of mine. It’s a space full of moms figuring out business and life in a way that makes sense for them.
Come for the meal planning, stay for the inspiration. Hope to see you there.
Let’s talk about the Bark Phone for Kids. If you’ve been stressed about giving your child a phone but want to keep them safe and connected, this is the game-changer. The Bark phone lets you monitor their activity without hovering, giving them independence and keeping your peace of mind intact. Seriously, I wish I had this sooner!
I’m teaming up with my old friend Mia Danielle, a minimalism expert, for an upcoming event she is hosting for her community!
I no longer host events, and she does so of course I had to tell you about it!
We’ll be diving into real-time support for millennial moms who want to simplify their homes and their minds. You won’t want to miss it—we’ll be sharing tips, stories, and practical strategies to help you reclaim your space.
This is a FREE event with LIVE decluttering support which is something I know so many of you love to have, but just isn't something I do any more.
If you’re not sure where to start, try this quick win tonight:
Before bed, take just 10 minutes to do three simple things:
✅ Clear the kitchen counters
✅ Do a quick toy/living room pickup
✅ Lay out clothes or pack bags for tomorrow
That’s it! Set a timer and see how much you can get done in a short burst. You’ll wake up feeling so much lighter, and once you see the difference, you’ll want to keep going!
